Choose your battles carefully. Only go to the mat when the issue is critical and you are sure you are on the right side of the issue.
Men and women died in the Civil War because they were willing to die for the way they felt about slavery and states rights. Hundreds of thousands lost their lives because they thought one human could own another.
Parents have lost children when they carped about a clean room and pushed their teenager into despair.
Executive sales managers have lost stellar employees over commission cuts or territory disputes. Be sure you are on the right side of the fence before you take an unbending position. Picture yourself in their shoes before you take a strong stand. Always sleep on it before you go to war. There will be casualties in a war.